That makes sense to me., now if Hlayisi decides that he cannot be with someone who handles money like I do, he should be allowed to go, and i should accept that this person chooses to not be with me because of a,b,c.
So i have made it through today without communicating and will continue on like this with my life. Yesterday I get a call that i have a voucher waiting for me at planet fitness, to exercise with them for a month, maybe it's a good thing, i will go today and check it out. maybe it will be a nice activity to do, after work and on weekends. will definately help with the back problems i am experiencing.
My point being:
- changing routine is good in the initial stages of a break up
Go to the gym and just do something I enjoy, maybe i should sign up for swimming lessons finally.